5 Books That Will Change Your Life

5 Books That Will Change Your Life

1. Start With Why By Simon Sinek

How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action

Key Takeaways:

  • People don’t just buy what you do, they buy Why you do it. People want to support brands that align with their belief system, purpose-driven brands that stand for something will establish an audience that will advocate for them.
  • Great leaders inspire action. “Leaders who start with what they believe are the ones who inspire those around them, because in the end, we all follow those who lead not for themselves, but for others.” – Simon Sinek
  • The Golden Circle: Why –> How –> What. Before you define what you want to do and how to do it, establish the ‘Why’ that drives you. Everything else will fall into place if you have identified your core-beliefs and mission behind your work. Once you define your ‘Why,’ ‘How’ and ‘What’ you do will come naturally. Your process and the value that you are giving your community or customer base should all be driven by your mission and core values
  • There is a biological and scientific reason behind these theories – The Limbic Brain is responsible for our feelings of trust and loyalty, this is often unexplainable and a natural response to what we perceive around us. Core beliefs are at the center of this brain function, when something resonates with us on a deep level, it is touching on our value and belief system. Clearly communicating your ‘Why’ and mission can allow you to deeply connect with the right audience for your brand, an audience that will advocate for you!

2. Mindset By Carol Dweck Ph.D.

The New Psychology of Success

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Key Takeaways:

  • Carol Dweck Ph.D, a pioneer in the study of human motivation, has defined two distinct mindsets that vastly effect one’s life-outcomes. She uses the terms Fixed vs. Growth Mindset to examine how one’s outlook and belief-system can impact ones motivations and drive to learn and grow.
  • Individuals with a Fixed Mindset believe that one’s intelligence and skill-sets are ‘fixed’ or static throughout one’s life. They believe that we are born with certain skillsets and these are not changeable.
  • Individuals with a Growth Mindset believe that intelligence and new skillsets can be learned and cultivated. They believe that through effort and a motivation to grow and learn, that any skill is attainable.
  • Dweck notes the differences between these two distinct mindsets through her study and research. She believes that those that have a Growth Mindset are much more likely to succeed and thrive.
  • Some important characteristics of someone with a Growth Mindset: embraces challenges, sees effort as a path to mastery, open to constructive criticism as a learning tool, persists even when faced with setbacks, finds inspiration in the success of others, has awareness of their flaws but believes that these can be overcome through concerted effort.

3. The Gifts of Imperfection By Brene Brown Ph.D.

Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

Key Takeaways:

  • This is a guide to cultivating self-worth and self acceptance.
  • Brown offers us tools to find courage, overcome shame, fear and self-consciousness.
  • Vulnerability is a practice in whole-hearted living, true self-acceptance and finding bravery in the face of fear.
  • Brown reframes the idea of vulnerability, which is often viewed as a weakness. She believes that our ability to embrace the vulnerable side of us, the side of us that avoids uncertainty and rejection, will allow us to feel truly empowered and self-actualized. Vulnerability is your superpower, your way of truly connecting on a deeply human level, both to yourself and to those around you.

4. The Power of Now By Eckart Tolle

A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment

Key Takeaways:

  • Life is a series of present moments, cultivating a true sense of presence in the ‘now’ is a practice in mindfulness.
  • Become an observer of your thoughts without judgement, your thoughts are not ‘you.’ Thoughts occur and they can be released just as fast if you choose to observe them, and not to believe them or make value judgements based on them. Enlightenment is achieved by rising above thought.
  • Pain is a result of resistance, anxiety is a physical and emotional response to a perceived outcome that has not occurred.

5. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck By Mark Manson

A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

Key Takeaways:

  1. “Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable being different.” – Mark Manson
  2. Simply put, the key to living a good life is not giving a fuck about more things, but rather, giving a fuck only about the things that align with your personal values.
  3. This book is about making an intentional decision about what you truly care to give a fuck about and letting everything else go. We spend so much of our lives concerned over trivial things, things that we have no control over and this takes our time an attention away from the things that truly matter to us.
  4. We only have a limited amount of energy and we must choose to direct that energy towards fuck-worth endeavors, things that bring us joy, passion and inspiration. Align yourself to things that are true, present and fundamentally important to you.